First, if someone you know appears to be depressed and is contemplating suicide, take that person seriously. Listen to what he or she is saying.
Take the initiative to ask that person what he or she is planning. But don't attempt to argue him or her out of committing suicide. Rather, let the person know that you care and understand and are listening. Avoid statements like: "You have so much to live for.
"I had tried that. But I WAS Just left alone.I was selfish to my kids. No one else, but them.I never hurted so bad in my life... ever. It took strangers to help me and make me try to understand. Thank goodness for my babies I'm still here.
But now I wear the scars to remind me.I'm still trying to heal.If someone you know appears to be depressed and talks about suicide, makes a suicidal gesture, or attempts suicide, take it as a serious emergency. Listen to the person, but don't try to argue with him or her. Seek immediate help from a health care professional. Depressed people are not crazy and are not making anything up.Don't run away from them. Depression is a state of my mind.
It is a real a disease. Its not simply a case of being sad,nor is it an attempt to seek sympathy.
If your loved one appears to be in imminent danger of committing suicide, do not leave him or her alone. Remove any weapons or drugs he or she could use. Accompany him or her to the nearest emergency room.How much love did people have for me?I'm still here.
But I had a big chance of not BEING.Anybody who expresses suicidal thoughts or intentions should be taken very seriously. Do not hesitate to call your local suicide hotline immediately. Call 800-SUICIDE (800-784-2433) or 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255) -- or the deaf hotline at 800-799-4889.
